Your Weekly Horoscope May 13th to 19th

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Jessica Adams has prepared your weekly astrological forecast for 13-19 May 2019. Discover what the stars have in store for you this week.


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The Astrologer’s Diary: 13-19 May 2019

I’ve been predicting the sequel to the Panama Papers and Paradise Papers for a year and this one, coming on the weekend of May 18th-19th, will shock the world. In the wake of the Sunday Times’ Rich List, this is a storm waiting to happen and Stormzy’s accountant may very well be involved. Uranus (the planet at large) rules lightning. Read the original prediction here - because this revolution began around 12 months ago. In London? Come along to a very special all-day astrology and oracle card event this Saturday 18th May just near Baker Street. One of you will also win a private reading with me over afternoon tea, at Fortnum’s.  Book here now. One runner-up will also receive free admission to the full Sun Sign School course valued at US $700. Numbers are limited for Saturday, but everyone will take home a gift bag with a set of Astrology Oracle cards, and an eBook guide, along with discount codes for some of the world’s leading astrologers and psychics. Free pizza afterwards too at The Metropolitan Bar. Find out more about this special day, suitable for beginners as well as professionals, here.


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aries

Aries: 13-19 May 2019

And so we come to something you may or may not have been anticipating – the end of the known world in relation to your money, house, charity, apartment, business or valuables. This is the second of two ‘moments’ this year. The first happened quite recently. Now, you realise you have to embrace all and everything that is new and different, even if it means you must leave behind all that is predictable and usual! A revolution is here, and freedom and independence are on offer – you cannot buy them in a catalogue. I daresay Friday-Sunday will end up being a milestone in your memory, if only because you had to look at the relationships involved, especially with partners or relatives, and put a price on who and what matters most.

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Taurus: 13-19 May 2019

You have not seen Uranus in Taurus in your adult life and on Saturday he meets Venus, your ruler. This is about your image, brand, profile, title, Twitter identity, reputation and the rest. Over the last few weeks you have increasingly realised that your ‘Me’ situation in 2019 will not be remotely like your ‘Me’ situation in 2018! In fact, you have already been pushed into taking a more independent stance once, and it is set to happen again. You are actually being separated from situations or people which fence you in, tie you down or lock you up on some level. It takes insight to see that, but that is what is happening. The Full Moon suggests your former, current or potential partner will be involved this Saturday. Maybe your arch enemy, rival or opponent.

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Gemini: 13-19 May 2019

The relationship you have with God, the Universe, the Buddha, Ganesha or whatever you think is up there, and out there (maybe nothing at all) is now profoundly changed. The changes actually began in May 2018 and they have gathered in stages, like a series of electrical storms, lighting up the darkest and most hidden areas of your soul or spirit. This new storm comes on the back of a lightning bolt a few weeks ago, and this time you have to accept that this is going to be a regular occurrence. You are exchanging the known world for the new and unknown world. You will need a lot of time and space for yourself to cope with this, no matter what you do or don’t believe. This may be about your ‘demons’ so to speak. It may be about the angel on your shoulder, but you have something quite big to absorb on Saturday. We also have a Full Moon then, so this is also about what or who does not perfectly compute, involving your workload, lifestyle, daily routine – and perhaps your own body. There is no 100% result this weekend. There cannot possibly be. But this too will pass.

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Cancer: 13-19 May 2019

We associate Uranus with ‘freedom from’ as well as ‘freedom through’ and you can now put that phrase in front of the word ‘friendship’ and also ‘the group.’ Sudden and unexpected events are due Saturday. You already had one, as the Sun joined Uranus quite recently. You were no doubt left wondering where to go next. Well, the path of independence is now opening up for you. You may not have had the time or space to even research your options yet! Stay open and stay tuned. Freedom from a community, club, team or other network that kept you small, tied you down or held you back is something you can happily pursue. Freedom from a friend who kept you chained to something or someone, you can also enjoy. But what about freedom ‘through’ at the moment? Well, you know, catch a ride on a lightning streak and feel the thrill. You also have your ruler the Moon turning Full in the sign of Scorpio, which is about pregnancy, babies, children and young adults in your life. It is about parenthood-potential sexual relationships too. Saturday requires time and space. You may prefer not to make this weekend your big decision or beginning moment. A Full Moon is a stretch anyway.

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Leo: 13-19 May 2019

Uranus in Taurus meets Venus on Saturday, on the same day that the Sun in Taurus is opposed by the Moon. This suggests a radical change in your position, mission – or with your ambition. It will involve a complicated relationship. You are likely to be caught between two opposing points of view, two sides, or feel yourself unable to compromise. Why? Well, this is also about your house, family, household, apartment or hometown. Long-term the important story to take away from this weekend is about a long overdue revolution in your career, or with your unpaid work or university degree. To be genuinely free – perhaps even liberated from who or what tied you down – is a rare thing. Dance in the storm and run towards all that is new.

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Virgo: 13-19 May 2019

Uranus in Taurus alongside Venus on Saturday, and the Sun there too, right opposite a Full Moon – puts your trip, foreign connection, course, book, website/blog or long-distance face at the top of your list. This may be quite a different culture to your own, even if it exists not far as the crow flies. Perhaps it is more exotic than that. There is a knowledge exchange too. You pass on what you know and believe, and in return, accept and absorb. This weekend is a milestone. Virgo, none of it will have been remotely predictable. In fact, you have already seen for yourself just how unpredictable life can be! What you had accepted or assumed, has turned out quite differently. This affects you as a student of life, a mentor or guide to others, a traveller, migrant, publisher, author or internet citizen. It is really just freedom in disguise, though. When you finally get some time and space to figure out just how free you can ultimately be – and how genuinely unshackled and independent – you’ll find it thrilling. Saturday could be dicey for trips or commutes, though. Full Moon and all that. If a little voice is telling you to do X, or check Y, then listen to the little voice.

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Libra: 13-19 May 2019

Saturday is about your house, money, apartment, charity, business or valuables. It is about your approach to taxation, and your assets. It is very much about a will, legacy or inheritance. It may be about a mortgage. It is about your values. What you will or will not sell your soul for. Who or what you consider to be priceless, to the point of no negotiation. The Full Moon is a whopper. If you are like so many Libra people and have factors in Scorpio in your birth chart, then it may be life changing. Essentially you are going to price your own independence. What would it cost you to break free of someone or something? You may find it leaves the station before you are even at the gate, whistling. That’s okay. It’s just the Uranus transit on your Venus, which rules you. Try to minimise the actual big decisions or moves on Saturday, though, you’ll have enough to deal with anyway. A property auction would be a case in point. Saturday is best set aside to process and absorb what is changing so rapidly and radically and figure out how to appreciate the glittering value of priceless liberty.

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Scorpio: 13-19 May 2019

The focus on Saturday is your former, current or potential partner. Perhaps your opponent, rival, enemy or the opposition as a whole. This is a complicated relationship. It may involve deep envy. Some vanity. It likely involves the level of intimacy you would expect to see between husband and wife, or two lovers. There can also be strong feelings whenever the family has to figure itself out too. Mother and son. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and so on. The fact is, you have already faced one moment of truth very recently, when you found yourself dealing with rejection, or completely rejecting what/who had no place in your world. Now there is another moment of truth. Everything is illuminated in the flash of lightning. What do you get from this? Freedom. Independence. Space. Oxygen. You know, a duel can be as much of a dance as a duet. If is time for you to depart a duet, or a duel, or for either to exit stage left – so be it.

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Sagittarius: 13-19 May 2019

Uranus and Venus in Taurus in your Sixth House of workload, daily life, your ‘valet’ duties with the household, your sense of duty and service to others – requires thought. This is also where we find your body, as it affects your state of mine, and vice versa. Expect the second unpredictable episode in a few short weeks. You were recently rejected or rejected someone…or something. It may actually have been your physical body, which can reject (for example) particular food. More likely you said ‘No’ to someone on the work or housework front, or at university – or heard ‘No’ from others. Now comes stage two. The Rejection Dance as I call it is liberating. It sets you free from someone/something that was never going to give you the space and oxygen you required. It pays to get real about these things. This may have been about unpaid work as much as a job.

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Capricorn: 13-19 May 2019

This weekend is likely to come as a release and a relief, as well as a real moment of truth – likely about a baby, child or adult offspring. It may also be about pretenders to your throne: nieces, nephews, godchildren, adopted children and so on – stepchildren, very likely. Venus suggests mother and son issues. Perhaps, questions about husbands and wives and adultery. Maybe matters strictly between two lovers. Occasionally we find daughter-in-law and mother-in-law issues with the Fifth House too, when Venus comes to visit. For all that you could be distracted by questions about what is passionately truthful, and truly passionate – cleave to the higher issue of freedom. Your own, his, hers or theirs. Independence Day happens in two stages – one step was taken recently – another step is taken on Saturday. There is also a question here about a friend, or the group, also on Saturday and you may prefer not to do anything too drastic on that Full Moon. It’s a big enough stretch with your social life, friendships or your network as it is! Yet, the world of babies or children is calling.

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Aquarius: 13-19 May 2019

Your ruling planet Uranus (shockwaves, radical change, freedom, liberation, relief and release) now makes his second stand, in just a few days – and your family or home is affected. This may be your hometown, property investments or homeland. Your relatives or household. Your apartment or rental. To be on the right side of your own history, accept what has happened – and what is about to happen on Saturday – as part of your own progress. Independence is progress. Both for yourself and other people. We all deserve and need to be free. Something about this situation in your life, evident since May 2018, suggests that freedom may be a relatively new buzzword in your conversations, but it is worth pursuing. Dance in any storm, even though one has to admit it is still a storm. Lightning bolts enlighten and illuminate, suddenly and powerfully.

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Pisces: 13-19 May 2019

Everyone is a courier, journalist, television reporter, publisher or editor these days. Because of the internet. Social media makes you a communicator among millions of them. Your actual job or course may also involve being heard or read, as effectively as you can manage. Now, it is time to forget what you assumed would be the case in 2019 or expected would happen. Just in the last few days you have realised that. Now, on Saturday, comes another moment of truth. The thing is, you are shackled on some level, or perhaps involved in keeping others fenced in. That really can’t go on, Pisces, so whatever has to happen, will happen. Your intuition should tell you that the world and his wife have reached a point when freedom and independence are so longed for. So required! This is now playing itself out online or in the MSM.

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12 thoughts on “Your Weekly Horoscope May 13th to 19th

  1. Dear Jessica, I’m desperately hoping you will see & make time for my question, even though I am 2 weeks late in posting. I also hope you can write a follow-up article, to this Hell-On-Earth Scorpio Full Moon that is part of my life-changing event May 16, 2019.

    I read both the Libra & the Aries horoscopes, as I figured the Aries part of the houses might apply for me since I’m Aries Rising.

    This week’s Aries, says: “…And so we come to something you may or may not have been anticipating – the end of the known world in relation to your money, house, charity, apartment, business or valuables. …. I daresay Friday-Sunday will end up being a milestone in your memory, if only because you had to look at the relationships involved, especially with partners or relatives, and put a price on who and what matters most.”

    And Libra: “…It is about your values. What you will or will not sell your soul for. Who or what you consider to be priceless, to the point of no negotiation. The Full Moon is a whopper. If you are like so many Libra people and have factors in Scorpio in your birth chart, then it may be life changing. …”

    OMG. Jessica. DEAD ON.

    To really understand the level of the shock and devastation you must Picture this as The background scene set-up:

    My father suddenly in the hospital, on his death bed. Literally.
    And My mother in a place akin to “One Flew Over The Cuckoo’s Nest”.
    And I’m barely surviving each day with them in this situation, which has been going on for the past 11 months.

    And then, the HELL:

    May 16th, just before this Hell Scorpio Full Moon:
    this date changed my whole world,
    as my husband (Leo Sun, 1 degree Scorpio Rising, Taurus Moon) of 20.5+ years
    told me he was in love with a girl from work (Taurus) and wanted us to be over.
    Quote.

    This major shocking disclosure only came about that night because of another argument – my pushing pushing pushing – which I now completely regret – over the same tired subject (me wanting to us move back to the city we had left, 5 years prior, b/c I didn’t like the new city).

    What an IDIOT I was.
    I had been beating the drum of this subject for about a year & had been naive & just saw what I wanted, with blinders on. I hadn’t taken his not-wanting-to-go-back feelings seriously and had been acting like a tantrum-ish 4-yr-old child about the subject day-in-day-out.

    This “need” had been my knee-jerk reaction (“escape escape escape back to the faraway city, at all costs!”) to the extreme stress I’ve been experiencing b/c of my elderly parents’/

    Sometime during this past month (May 2019), as I was in & out of town taking care of my father in hospital in a another city,
    my husband said that the basic general “friend-level” attraction he had felt for this woman at his work, had turned to what he thought was real Love.
    Quote.
    That he had ‘never felt this way before’ and that all the feelings of ‘love’ he thought was love with me ‘was not’ after all – and that ‘this must be what it really feels’.
    Quote.

    The night of the usual argument, he had asked me again: “Are you still going to leave to go to ‘Old City’?”
    My stupid reply that night had been: “Ya, if I can find a place cheap enough… I can live there part time and come back every other weekend….to be together”.
    Well… he had never wanted that kind of marriage, he said.
    And here I’d thought I was being a Modern Woman, Proposing a Modern Set-up.
    What an IDIOT I was.

    To say I was in shock is the understatement of the Century b/c we had always talked of what constituted cheating – emotional or otherwise. We were a major “communication” couple. No one would believe this could ever happen, not with us. That old cliche.

    Anyway he said nothing happened physically, but he refused to ‘end the friendship’. Texting etc. She texts on weekends, etc. & now my world is shattered. Each time, it’s insult to injury. He replies too! He seems to not want to hear anything that would put this girl’s possible interest for him in jeopardy (as a relationship possibility). He even acted like a man scorn, when he saw this woman with some man within the last 10 days. As he described it to me:
    “…I ran into her & her I presume lover, so she wasn’t into me anyway. She wasn’t after your husband after all!” (as a justification to keep the ‘friendship’)(I maintain that she knows and is using him and getting her ego boosted from him and he maintains that she doesn’t know, never knew his feelings for her).
    I have explained till I’m blue in the face, the inappropriateness of this ‘friendship’ & how it hurts me. (Be friends with anyone else at work! Not someone you told me you were In love with!)
    (He has since changed his mind about being in love with her, apparently – since he saw her with someone).
    But… here we are: He always still texts her back, and he JUST told me he had given her a Bday card in early May, (“for full disclosure, by the way…”) – in which he wrote inspirational words to encourage her in her artistic pursuits.
    (I’m also an artist – a professional one at that – but he doesn’t care to encourage me with words to that effect).

    I am annihilated by this broken circle of trust & his continuation to insist on keeping this relationship going – not blocking her, etc.
    He is acting like he is planning on leaving me – as soon as she is open to him.
    It hurts beyond description – especially when I told him I was not leaving quietly, that I adore him and am committed to our marriage.
    Every day is torture when he is at work. I asked that he simply ‘ghost’ her & only be neutral, Only communicating at work, with other co-workers, About Work — nothing outside, but he refuses. She’s got some spell on him. He stays late there to ‘help’ her, he offered. He’s paranoid about his phone, doesn’t want me to contact her – to humiliate him – b/c he claims that she doesn’t know of his (supposed past) feelings.

    The shock & pain of potentially losing my marriage – on top of everything else I’m losing (parents, I’m an only child, no siblings, friends or other family aside from my husband in this new city) made me COMPLETELY wake up & change my direction =
    I absolutely have let go of returning to the old city. For the sake of Us. I never thought I’d be this way: putting marriage ahead of my needs and wants, but I realized that I HAD put everything else (modern career woman cliche) ahead of what my Heart TRULY values & needs (my husband). Values. What really matters. If the Feminist organization asks for my membership card back, I’ll gladly return it. I don’t care in the slightest if that makes me not a Feminist.

    Please Jessica, can you find the astrology that can give me hope that my marriage will survive and truly right itself back up from this HELL TITANIC-EPIC Capsize?

    I am desperately heart-broken, but do not want to walk away from my husband & my vows.
    I refuse to go away.
    I even joked that awful night that he miscalculated if he thought that telling me this would make me walk away quietly from hurt pride. As Sade sang “Love is Stronger Than Pride”.

    I have 100% realized my errors and need my husband more than any stupid Old City that I used to live in, I need him & Our Marriage more than some barely-still-alive-anyway Stupid Old Career there, etc. I feel that everything is crumbling in my life.

    Please Jessica, if you can use astrology to help me hold on, to tell me that things will right themselves again for Us Together, I will be eternally grateful.

    This HELL Scorpio Full Moon is indeed as you had described it: A life-changing WHOPPER.

    I’m completely transformed – I’ve realized that my Marriage IS the Most Important Thing in My Entire life.

    Sorry about the long post. I would be eternally grateful if you can see & answer this.
    I’ve never felt this strongly about anything in my entire life.
    Thanks Jessica.

    • I am so sorry that you are going through this with your parents and also your husband. The Full Moon was devastating for many people and you are one of them. So let’s look at what is going on. Marriage is ruled by Libra and Scorpio in your horoscope. Your parents are ruled by Cancer and so too is your home, and your idea of where home is – here or there. You have a ‘perfect storm’ in your birth chart. You are strongly Scorpio with a stellium or unusually high number of factors in that sign in the Eighth House, which rules sex and money, marriage and mortgage, inheritance and legacy. Uranus, the planet of radical change, is moving through Taurus, right opposite. You were also born with Uranus himself in Libra, in your Seventh House of marriage, at 8 degrees – and Chiron is slowly moving to oppose that, also at 8 degrees. Given the amount of pain you are in, the first thing to do is disengage from the battle for your husband. You were also born with Vesta in Libra in the Seventh House. Vesta is a symbol of toxic female competition for a man, and the man’s encouragement of that contest, for reasons or ego or insecurity. Do not fight her as it will hurt more. You can look up Vesta and Seventh House on Search when you finish reading this to see what I am talking about. Yes, you do need to come to a new arrangement over the money or home. It will take time. In fact it may be a process of some years, but it will be okay. You also need to accept a ‘new deal’ with this man. This is about so much more than the Full Moon although it triggered your Scorpio stellium (look up the Eighth House on Search too because you ‘live’ there). It should be possible for you to recreate the relationship with him – because one way or another, together or apart, there will always have to be a relationship of some kind – without losing your balance. Heavily Scorpio relationships can be poisonous as two scorpions can sting each other to death or eat each other alive when they have sex. Did you know? I think you need an outside voice on this. Someone not involved. Call a crisis help line anonymously to just pour your heart out and see what the trained voice on the other end has to say. Sometimes just saying it, helps you step outside it. Yes, you two are going to have to come to a totally new arrangement about the money or home. No, it doesn’t have to hurt. Do step away from the contest with ‘her’ and do not give her any energy. A brave thing to do, if you can stand it, is to get her face-to-face and even make a joke out of him, or force yourself to have a sense of humour about the situation. Do not dismiss your career and home so lightly. Do your life maths. Sit down, give yourself time and space to figure out what you would pay for X, Y or Z. And what it costs you to do X, Y or Z. Actually put a price tag on things. At the moment you are in shock and you are allowed to be feeling intense and extreme about things, but please don’t sign anything or agree to anything in the heat of the moment. You desperately need outside advice to help you be impartial about the nuts and bolts of financial or property agreements you have with him, and actually also with your parents – their legacy to you, for example. At the end of the day it will be the money that matters so get across the first with the best impartial advice you can afford. Read the paperwork with a magnifying glass. You may end up apart in a few years, you may still be together, but the ‘deal’ between you as a couple has to go through a revolution. And remove her from the equation – take your energy off her.

  2. Thank you Jessica, I’m so grateful that you saw & answered my desperate plea.

    My husband did not want me to speak about this to anyone – said we’d definitely be over if I did. So this is certainly an alternative.
    I feel that this demand of his is a way to not clearly face the inappropriateness of his actions & his subsequent demands (still be ‘friends’ w/ her).
    If no outside party knows, no one – including his co-workers or parents for instance – no one can judge him (a.k.a. side with me: I’m not crazy, I’m not nuts – this IS inappropriate & not Ok).

    I asked him mid-week last week: “Do you want to heal Us?” and he had said: “Yes…. so stop the Cold War.” (meaning, stop asking him to quit relating with her in the subterfuge world of one-on-one texts & working together after hours in a small space)….

    I obviously have not completely managed this but I am working on it.
    I had never felt insecure or worried about this subject ever before in our 21.5+ of Being Together – I’d often go out of town, and felt zero doubts. He was always calling and we’d talk constantly and we have always been very physically demonstrative – even walking hand in hand through the parking garage to our car, he always has a hand on my leg as we’d sit watching tv, telling me he loved me 20 x’s a day — he was always so “into” me — it was never ‘for show’.

    I agree with you about not giving her energy. In the last two weeks, I went to meet my husband at work and had to end up meeting her too, but I found comfort in the fact that – In my opinion anyway – she isn’t a threat to me at all (physical attractiveness sense). In fact, when my husband disclosed all of this heartbreaking stuff, he even put in a weird tidbit – in explanation of his bewildering, inexplicable feelings for her/not understanding why this had all happened – “….she doesn’t even have curves!” (a thing my husband loved about me).
    My husband and I have a great sex life, which is still ongoing at least, on weekends, even through this hell, we connect very deeply on a soul level in that).

    I have zero intention of giving her energy at all – in fact, I have zero intent of engaging on any level with her. To me, she is a Maggot – barely that, in fact – of complete and total Unimportance.

    Also In this time, I did speak to an impartial, uninvolved social worker (who came to me when she saw me – Friday May 17th – hysterically crying in a conference room of the hospital where my dad is).
    She said that my husband’s need to ‘keep’ this ‘friendship’ ongoing was indeed inappropriate; simply because he chosen to blurt out those words to me (his supposed feelings at that moment) and this had negated our trust bond, & now had put our marriage in a precarious place. She likened this ‘friendship’ to choosing to drink & drive. She suggested couples counselling. But when I asked my husband, he categorically refused.

    I don’t know what kind of ‘new deal’ , as you say, our marriage can be; as I haven’t changed my opinion of what our vows entailed, and, since we don’t own much at all (property wise) I’m not sure what this would entail. (It doesn’t feel like a situation about physical property).

    My husband is not the type to do any of the ‘heavy lifting’ to end a legal marriage (i.e. move out, initiate legal proceedings, etc.). In fact, I do believe it was an accidental miscalculation on his part – to tell me. He had been crying during the shocking argument night, and I was holding him, begging him to tell me what was wrong, what was making him be so emotionally devastated – I was at that point thinking he was going to tell me he had terminal cancer or something! It was That Unusual & so serious.

    I pray you are right – about ending up Together vs. Apart.
    (“Yes, you do need to come to a new arrangement over the money or home. It will take time. In fact it may be a process of some years, but it will be okay. ….It should be possible for you to recreate the relationship with him…without losing your balance.”).
    Apart – honestly – is just not an Option for me.

    Also you wrote:
    “Yes, you do need to come to a new arrangement over the money or home. It will take time. In fact it may be a process of some years, but it will be okay. You also need to accept a ‘new deal’ with this man. ”

    Is this, perhaps, ‘letting’ him have this ‘friendship’ with this girl and not giving him any attention about it? Maybe. Maybe it would disinterest him.
    Although it’s very hard to pretend not to be (suddenly, for the first time in my life!) insecure. It’s so hard to be compared to a girl that he sees only in the best of lights – as she, like everyone else in the world of day jobs – is on her best behaviour in the work place, etc.
    (It’s unfair of course. Other men see ME as the same perfect woman to them vs. THEIR wives at home – they don’t see me crying, or stressed out about my parents, obviously, they see me as a rock goddess on stage, all independent and strong and I’m sure they compare their wives to ME, then). (It’s all an act that everyone puts on, when they are at work….)

    So, I’m not sure what this ‘new deal’ could be…. an ‘open marriage’? Absolutely Not.
    We made very clear promises, very clear definitions – and although HE may have changed, become a brand new person here, changed his image, all this with my help BY THE WAY, ha (I’m fluent in the language spoken here, he is not, I encouraged and supported him in all things to come here) – but I have not! We came to this new faraway city Together, and now that I’ve gotten my head out of my ass, I’m tits-deep committed.

    I can – if I try – do some sort of artistic endeavour here; even though it’s not the same (professional level wise: think small community theatre vs. Broadway) as the Old City but again, I honestly truly don’t care.
    If the ‘price’ – as you were speaking of – for my husband and my marriage, is That, Fine! I truly am ok with that.

    On the personal side of things – regardless of my marriage crisis – it did occur to me that perhaps The Universe arranged for this crisis to appreciate my marriage more – BUT also, to Keep Me Here in the New City – as maybe I am meant to be here, to find my Artistic soulmate = the Mick to my Keith, the McCartney to my Lennon. I don’t know, but it occurred to me.
    Considering this little tidbit: I’ve been looking for my artistic ‘other half’, my female artistic soulmate all my life. You see, I’m a (female) lead guitarist who’s always had to play with men, just to have enough gigs to make a living… and my lifelong artistic goal of a Rolling Stones-type all-female band has yet to be manifested. Could it be here in this New City ? Could this – my choice to Commit FULLY – not part time – to My Marriage, to Being Here – all be leading to that?)

    Regarding money:
    When I had Blinders On – I had been thinking/planning that when my would parents die soon, I would inherit a significant amount of $ and would be using that $ to buy another place in the Old City. (It had become my ‘ticket’ out of here).
    But now, I am committed to staying here for my marriage – so this $ is earmarked for Us, not some condo in some distant city.
    Maybe this is the ‘new deal’ that you mention?
    (It would mean my husband would have more faith in my financial solvency; I could provide more to our relationship. I know that $ has been a thing with him – and being a non-famous musician hasn’t been very lucrative).

    I truly believe Our Marriage can be better than it was, after this ordeal is over. It truly took this wake-up call, for me to Clue In, for me to Grow Up.

    I know you said it wasn’t ‘just’ the Scorpio Full Moon that was involved but I sure look forward to a future astrology article that you may write, on all these aspects of this Monster Month of May – healing as individuals, healing relationship via clarity, transformation, spiritual growth, honour, all those things Together.

    To my great embarrassment, always playing the Aries boldness independent modern woman, I’ve discovered I truly am a Libra ‘commitment is everything’ at the core of my soul. (with a hell of a lot of sexy Scorpio oozing through my facade!)
    ;-)
    A MILLION THANKS for your reply, Jessica! It really really really helped. You are so very compassionate and generous. THANK YOU!

    • You definitely have four factors in Scorpio. Venus, Jupiter, Neptune and Bacchus are all in Scorpio in the Eighth House, which we associate with sex and money, marriage and mortgage, legacy and inheritance. You have Uranus (the radical new deal) opposing all of them for about the next 7 years so slowly but surely, you will need to reshape the finances, the house, possessions or apartment with this man. This is the deal. You don’t think it’s about money or property, but actually – it really is. This is what you will need to sort out as, first of all, Uranus at 7 Taurus opposes your Venus at 7 Scorpio. As you have Scorpio factors all the way to 28 degrees (Neptune) right into 2025-2026 you are going to need to keep on cutting financial deals, with or without him. That is why, despite the emotion, you need to read the paperwork. All of it, co-signed, or implicating both of you – and read it now. As for this other person: even the word ‘maggot’ is a sure sign you are emotionally engaged. You are acting out Vesta, in which you are vilifying the woman. Have a look at Vesta in paintings in particular. Look her up on Search. You have Vesta in Libra, you see, in your marriage zone. The situation will be a great deal more simple if you can lose the idea of a contest for his approval or affection. How you do that is feminism. You may loathe this person, but try to get to sisterhood – somehow. It will actually remove the whole situation very rapidly. I once knew a woman who had Vesta in her Seventh House. She was infatuated with a good-looking male who always had a ton of female ‘friends’ around him. He never put out with any of them. He made her miserable for years until she finally owned her Vesta and bonded with the women. In fact they began to ignore him in favour of other men. He left the scene. I strongly suspect your husband is a Vesta type, having a transit to his Vesta. Start there. Really dig into the story of the Vestales – the Vestal Virgins – and the Pontifex Maximus. Figure out a way to stop playing the game. Sure you are a musician and Scorpio stuff feeds music, but there is pain here over the next 7 years unless you can alter the story. Scorpions sting. You should also look up ‘promenade a deux’ on Search as you are acting it out with him, which is very common with Libra-Scorpio types. Good luck!

  3. OMG Jessica! You have just BLOWN my mind!

    I just looked up my husband’s Vesta and sure enough: it’s @ 21 SCORPIO, 1st House !!!
    And sitting Right there in Scorpio with his Vesta? NEPTUNE @ 21, Ascendant @ 1, Mars @ 5 !!!!

    How the hell do you DO this?!?! Good grief, woman! You are incredible.

    The rest of the chart is as follows:
    Moon in Taurus @ 20 in 7th house, along w/True Node there @ 2 degrees.
    Leo Sun @ 6 in 10th house, along with Jupiter @ 13 and his MC @ 8
    Chiron in Pisces @ 21 in 5th house.
    Mercury in Cancer @ 17 in 9th house.
    Venus in Virgo @ 12 in 10th house, along with Uranus @ 21, and Pluto @18.
    Saturn @ 12 Aries, in the 6th house.

    I will follow your advice & absolutely stop ‘playing the game’.
    (Although, I certainly won’t be reaching towards sisterhood with the chick, as I cannot respect someone who goes after a married man – my Libra sense of fairness, honor, justice towards fellow sisters cannot condone this – but I will absolutely cease ALL energy going out to this, as you say, “vesta” situation).

    THANKS SO MUCH.
    I am a member here for life.

    P.S. If you do add a “relationship/partner/composite chart” horoscope section on your website, I will gladly & gratefully subscribe to that too! I would now really like to learn about Our connection – what is the good, bad, & unbreakable in our bond. It reminds me of my Aesculapia (an asteroid I’d never heard of until your website) @ 2 Libra in my 7th house.

    And so, I close by quoting you:
    “Aesculapia is a symbol of resurrection, revival and a miraculous comeback in your horoscope….Just when you think someone/something is over, it comes back from the brink.”
    Oh yes please! :-)

    Jessica, your caring for your members is unparalleled.
    xoxo
    Blessings to you, you True Sister Friend!

    • Now that’s really interesting – your husband, as I suspected, has Vesta conjunct Neptune at 21 Scorpio. It’s actually in his Eighth House, which is sex and money, marriage and mortgage. (Using the Natural House system which I prefer for accuracy). So here you have a picture of a man who escapes from the real world by setting himself up as the King to a female court, with the money, house, business, apartment, charity, possessions at his feet. I hope you can see why it is important to Google-search the paintings of Vesta (search Images) and even the old Roman sculptures of her servants, the Vestales (Vestal Virgins) to get a feeling for just how potentially toxic these situations can become. I would be astonished if this other woman was not in discussion with him about money or property on some level – or perhaps gifts, favours. Trying to bust Vesta takes a bit of time and effort. If you can’t stand to talk to this woman, at least just think about walking away from the entire situation. You want to stay with him and make it work. That is one option. But you can’t do so in a harem unless you want some years of considerable confrontation over your money or home. You have a bit of homework to do here, but you have time. Use your Tarot and Astrology Oracle cards (digital here) and also your journal to see what you can do. And thank you – I always approve of the sisterhood!

  4. …Late comment with more news and thanks.
    The New Moon Gemini of June 3rd – brought heavy conversation between me and my husband. He cried, I cried, it seemed like a rebirth. Promises made – to stop the hell with the texts, etc.
    I really thought it brought a brand new start between us – really heavy experience of love and renaissance, so I felt, so he supposedly felt, so I thought..
    Now, not so sure, because, just over 24 hrs later, my dad died. And I feel more alone than ever now.
    I’m in hell. I can’t believe the timing.
    I don’t feel honesty. I feel that the new start was a lie. Was it a false new start?
    I’m trying to stay “up” and not be a tedious 1950’s wife, checking for the modern age of lipstick on collar…. I can’t even talk to my Dad anymore.
    I feel so alone.
    New Moon Gemini new fresh heavy renaissance re-commitment to Us was made = Was it a real?

    • Deep breath. Your nervous system is stretched by the situation with your husband and the loss of your father. The loss of your Dad is the most important thing. Do you have good friends or family to lean on now? Sometimes just a sympathetic ear on the end of the phone, by a stranger, can be very helpful. The Samaritans or Lifelink are two such services. Trust the process. Your husband is there to help with the loss of your father. You should not feel alone. I would also like to confirm that there is no death. I have been a medium for 20 years, and seen and heard evidence, continually, that we pass – or transition – to spirit. We don’t vanish! So your father is in transition and may even be in that other space. I recommend the work of Margaret Dent, an Australian medium I knew well, and Ruth Phillips, the medium now based in Britain. You should also look at the work of Linda Williamson, the low-profile but justifiably famous British medium. And go online to see a BBC documentary about Gordon Smith – you will leave, believing. Again, trust the process with your husband. None of this is random. The universe is not being cruel, though it must be so painful for you to go through. The ongoing discussions and connections with your mate, must continue. And it will lead you to where you are supposed to be, to be happy. This is change. Change, capital C. Not the New Moon so much, although that is part of it. You are having transits which will utterly transform the relationship you have with men.

  5. It’s officiial. My husband signed a 1-year on his new apartment , doubling our monthly housing expenses. You were right Jessica about the girl involved in property or money talks or favours and gifts with him – he’s moving on July 1,2019 into an apartment in her same apartment building , she helped him get in there on such short notice and was his personal reference. So not only is he destroying me emotionally, he is now going to be destroying our financial situation. I will barely be able to live with the peanuts left over – certainly struggle to deal with my dad’s affairs for the next few years. (Death is expensive). My dad’s house was barely worth a cent as it is in the middle of now where, he had been hoarding for years and it needs me my repairs.
    I’m broken beyond repair.

    • I am sure you are devastated, if your husband has increased the costs to you and also involved another woman. There is no destruction here, except the end of ‘position’ and status. By this I mean your position as wife and daughter. This is going to feel like dealing with grit in your oyster shell until you get the pearl. Yet, allow the grit to take place as your horoscope will simply not let you going on being ‘his wife’ and ‘his daughter’ in that way! In the meantime you need some healing and repair work. I think I have recommended Betty Shine on YouTube before and her Mind Medicine Room technique – quiet free. She was one of the most famous British healers of the last century and her work has generously been left online by her daughter Janet. Go to your Mind Medicine Room frequently and get what you need from it. Can I suggest something? Look at any patterns in your family or relationship history where it is you and another female (of any age) and just one male. It may be your sister and father, for example, or a particular boyfriend and his ex, or a rival for his affection. Look at work too. There may be a recurring pattern here with Vesta in your chart, so if you spot it, get on it. The trick is to walk away, shrugging (Don’t Look Back, as Bob Dylan advised) – or to join forces with her – against him! I reckon the former is easier for you emotionally. Please do not compete or battle. Do not pour energy into them or her. It may be very hard to do this but you can – and you will – and you will be in a completely different financial and relationship situation when the time is right. Ask your father for help with the home.

  6. I had to move… to another city… hardest thing Ive ever done… now bunking in my moms empty condo for the next foreseeable months or years… Totally Alone dealing with grieving, and heartbreak, simultaneously. I have no future in this other city either though, I’m just here like a refugee: I’m totally broke & struggling to find a lawyer who can assist my situation because it requires straddling 2 worlds (legally speaking, as we were married in one area of country and now I’m stuck in another, with different laws).
    Husband has completely cut off contact with me.
    So now, since Obviously there are no more discussions – as you wrote earlier that Had to Continue; is our marriage is totally over, Jessica? Is there absolutely No resurrection, no assist from my Asescalapia to hope for anymore?

    • I know you are going through a really hard time, and are looking for hope. You also need to put your energy back into yourself and try to stop obsessing about this man and the situation. If you push, push, push in July and the first half of August you do so at a time when Mercury Retrograde will push back the other way and bring delays, reversals or changes to the paperwork, discussion or ‘answers’ either from him or the lawyers. Plus, common sense tells you, half the world is on vacation. If you can forward things to the second half of August and into September you will be in a much stronger position. Write it all down and shred it with your bare hands if you have to – vent – get rid of the feelings – but it would be silly to pursue paperwork regarding family or home (both ruled by Cancer) and residency and nationality (also Cancer) when Mercury is going backwards in Cancer and you also have two eclipses in that sign in July! You are not alone. I may have mentioned this before but you need to go to Betty Shine on YouTube (free) and use her Mind Medicine Room technique. This can and does get better but timing is everything in astrology.

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