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CONFUSED BOUNDARIES

When people who are confused about what is appropriate or acceptable try to follow who (or what) draws them, chaos usually follows. This kind of chaos can be perfectly harmless – and even fun. Alternatively it can be disruptive and potentially damaging too. You need to be aware of this now.

This is particularly true if this is an answer about the future. What is it about yourself, the people around you or the situation which is unfolding, which might lead to this loss of boundaries? And can you see it as something entertaining and amusing, or is it a threat to what you hold dear?

Just as it is impossible to judge the tides when the ocean comes rushing into shore, you now have a situation where there are no known barriers or limits. Everything changes, all the time. Nobody knows what’s what, or who belongs where, or what the terms and conditions actually are.

Alcohol and drugs which release inhibitions (the usual terms and conditions of life) or alter perception (another loss of boundaries) can increase the muddle and the mayhem. It’s really down to you to judge the situation. Is this a welcome dose of magic and mystery or just plain stupid and disruptive?

Some real-life examples of confused boundaries might include stalking, where an addicted fan is so out of touch with who he/ she is, that some kind of fascinating target becomes the sole focus. Inappropriate or even illegal behaviour follows. Another good example of confused boundaries? A muddy rock festival.

This oracle answer turns up when there is a strong desire (by you or others) to forget or ignore what is sensible, right and proper – and answer some kind of thirst. That thirst is usually for a world where there is a chance to lose oneself in something (or someone) which is usually out of bounds.