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When a way of life is over, you always have the choice to rebuild. It’s really a matter of weighing up the advantages and disadvantages. On the plus side, rebuilding can help you create something new from the remains of what you had before – but this time (hopefully) – in a way which prevents any more problems.
On the minus side, rebuilding typically involves time, effort, energy and perhaps a big financial investment. There are no guarantees that you will get what you want, once the process is over, either. And even if you are satisfied with the end result, will you believe all that hard work or money was truly worth it?
Because the choice to rebuild always comes after a disruptive episode, you will need plenty of time to get over what has happened – and also to make the right choice. Deciding to go back and start again is not something that should be rushed. You will need rest, recovery and healing time first.
This also applies to any decision you might make to leave things where they are; to move on, and focus on other goals. This kind of choice represents a major departure, and perhaps there is no going back. Thus, you will need to give as much thought as possible to the idea of walking away.
Your perspective on the situation is really important too. It may be tempting for you, or others, to see the disruption or the damage as disastrous. However, this may not explain the situation fully. Sometimes there are deeper reasons (even good reasons) why a way of life has to stop. It’s worth looking for them.
Above all, this Oracle answer has a message about the need to ground, centre and focus. This may seem hard when something that you assumed was stable and permanent has been shaken. More than anything else, though, it is a calm attitude and philosophical outlook that will help you make the right choice.
Your Oracle answer describes a man who is younger than you – sexy, confident, sure of himself and ready for a relationship. He has come to terms with the fact that he is not the perfect man, and that is one of the many attractive things about him. He is at peace with himself, physically, mentally, emotionally.
He knows what is he looking for. And he has made up his mind – it’s time for a relationship. Beyond that, there are no guarantees for him. For all his certainty, he may choose the wrong person – someone who disappoints him, or someone who leaves him. For now, though, he believes in love, and all that it could bring.
This man is conservative. If you are looking for someone unconventional then look elsewhere. Some people might find him too straight. His morals, ethics and values are one of the most obvious things about him. He knows what’s right – at least from his angle. Being right, and doing what’s right, matter to him.
Who he ends up with depends very much on timing, and luck. When this oracle answer turns up, you are catching him at the very beginning of his search for a partner. If he fails to find anyone suitable right away, then his ideas about who is right for him may change over time. He may become more adaptable.
Remember that this man’s image and presentation are impressive (he’s selling himself as a romantic hero) but the human being underneath may be rather different. Once you get past the sexy ‘sell’, the words, the car or the clothes, it’s important that there is enough there for you to honestly respect and love.
Thus, it may be in both your interests to go into this slowly and carefully so that you do not fall for a ‘type’ and then wake up with someone else! Encourage him to reveal more of himself if you can. This is no time to rush into pregnancy, engagement or any other commitment. He’ll have to trust you. But it’s worth it.
This Oracle answer is about winning – the idea, project, plan or concept which you know has so much potential has found success. You have won your argument. Alternatively, you have put the competition in second or third place. Your victory is also triggering insecurity in others. Or over-excitement! But keep going.
The truth of your situation is that the rewards you are currently experiencing are just as important as the experience, wisdom, strength and self-belief you have acquired as part of the process. This is not only a triumph for your point of view, or your project, it is also a personal victory. You’re a better human being.
Do all you can now to secure the backing of other people, as once this memorable period of success is over, you will need support to help plant your plan and help it prosper. This is no time to do or say anything which would work against you, or the idea. Let others know you want to meet them halfway. It’s time to talk.
It may help to remember that your success is a tribute to yourself, and to that dearly-held vision of yours – but that it also owes a lot to the times. You are the right person, with the right plan, at the right time, in the right place. It might have been different otherwise. And be wise – failure, too, may come one day.
It is very important to read the hearts and minds of those around you as thoughtfully as possible. Tune in. Listen, and read. Watch what is going on around you. This is one of your finest hours, and you deserve to enjoy the moment. But in your own interests, you must get the measure of those around.
This will also help you when it is time to take your argument or your concept and work with it properly. Remember, too, that if you have been singled out for special recognition and rewards as part of a group who share these plans, you must now make sure that you take these people into account. It’s their time too.
