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RECYCLING RELATIONSHIPS

This should be a passing phase in your life when some relationships appear to have failed, while others are being forgotten. Of course, if you want to remain stuck in this unhappy state of affairs you can. But if you are willing to heal and to change, you can recycle relationships which have ended, or are being neglected.

It’s important to remember that this Oracle answer is actually about potential for happiness. It may not feel like this. There may be a feeling of loss or mourning. Of loneliness or regret. If you are willing to begin your life again, though, some wonderful things are possible. The resources are there.

To begin the process of transformation, you need to turn your focus away from the people who are no longer there, in the same way, and turn to those you have turned your back on. Perhaps more work is required here. Maybe you need to put the effort in to ‘feed’ each situation emotionally. But it’s worth it.

Knowing that you have at least one or two good, soulful connections in your life can help you take on the much larger task of correcting those personal or emotional situations which seem to have fallen over. This is very much about you, though. Your energy, your hard work, your commitment, your time.

The faster you lose your attachment to your own self-protection and self-absorption, the more rapidly you can get on with the job of fixing things up. Perhaps you cannot do it alone. If so, put out a call for help. It may look as if everything is out of reach, but you’ll never know who is there unless you try.

The relationships which seem so ‘over’ for you (or so unimportant) are those which now promise the most, if you can find a new way to operate, and to organise your life so that there is appropriate time and space for all of them. This will take time. But what you need, emotionally, is there. It just requires work.