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Some natural laws are so powerful that they rule everything else. The natural law of justice is one of them. If you have this Oracle answer then your situation may well be under the control of a court. Alternatively you may be dealing with karma. Or perhaps a non-legal, non-religious sense of what is fair.
This answer tells you that justice will prevail, however the situation is manifesting. And who is to say what is fair? In this case, it’s some kind of ultimate authority. It may be a judge. It may be a friend, partner or family member – or an employer. Often, it’s just the Universe. A higher power balances the scales.
Should this balancing of the scales come down to the decisions of just one person, it is important that both sides respect the enormous responsibility this person carries, and understand the tremendous effort involved in making a situation even – or equal. Whoever is in charge of this process has a difficult job.
There must also be the special ability to stand back from one’s own interests and situation, and view the outcome impartially. In the grand scheme of things, both you and the other side, or the other party, are now equal. Your position or personalities are no doubt quite different, but things will be left even. Fair – at least, given all the facts and realities of the moment.
Each of you in this situation have no doubt brought different things to the story. What an act of Justice does is take all this into account, and bring in changes that ensure the final outcome favours neither one side, nor the other. What is required here is symmetry. Order. Harmony. Justice has its own kind of beauty.
There is no way Justice can work without some kind of threat, of course. In this situation, it is wisest for both sides (yourself and the other) to be grateful for the fact that neither of you have to face the reality of that threat. Instead, you can face facts, and face each other. Justice has been done. Now, move on.
This Oracle answer is about the need to reconnect with people you have chosen to cut yourself off from. If you don’t, then you will miss out on relationships with real potential. There is also a risk that other people will appear and take them away from you. Time, and life itself, may also erode what is currently still there.
Even the offer of something or someone new may not be enough to tempt you during this phase. That alone should show you where the problem lies. The issue is not the value or worth of the people in question, it’s actually your own attitude. Something (or someone) has distanced you from human relationships.
You may feel stubborn about staying by yourself. You may feel defensive. You may feel complacent – or cynical. You may even have lost interest entirely. None of these emotional states are likely to get you very far. Thus, the first step in reconnecting yourself to others is to begin working on your attitude.
You can sit there passively, if you like, and wait for someone to come and rescue you. But there are no guarantees this will happen. Alternatively you can leave the situation you find yourself in, and seek help. Once you have lost the negativity, you will be amazed at how different those same people look to you.
If you are lucky then a new relationship may still be on offer once you have transformed yourself. And then you can begin again, with an entirely different kind of connection. One that you contribute to, energetically and passionately. One that you can value, appreciate and nurture for a long time to come.
If it’s solitude you seek then you can have this, but in a way which feels peaceful and fulfilling. And also in a way which leaves others feeling involved in your life, rather than distanced from it. And if you really want affection and intimacy? Well, it’s out there for you. But first, life reorganisation is required.
There are a number of competing opinions, plans or projects within the group at the moment. Because of the very different personalities involved, it’s hard for those concerned to see the other point of view. Some of you may be caught up in the conflict. Others may be solely focused on their ideas, or point of view.
Try to stand back from this rather complex and confusing situation to see your part in the scheme of things. There is a way out of this, for yourself, your vision, and the group. However, you can do nothing until you either a) disengage from a dispute or b) move your focus from your project or idea back to the others.
There is a good chance here that everyone can get what they want. To get there from here, though, communication is required. You can start to make this possible by changing your position and your angle, so that you are in the best possible place and time to be heard. The message? ‘It’s time to talk- and listen.’
This will require a considerable amount of effort from you, and you may feel as if you are risking what is precious if you do this. But you are taking a great risk anyway, just by allowing this messy situation to continue. One option: move right away from what is happening, then find a smart way to re-enter and start again.
This is a co-dependent set-up. Each of you is stuck in this unproductive tangle because of the other. If you alter your stance, it may be enough to bring in the required conditions for change. There are no guarantees it will work, but it is worth the attempt. Try to see the virtues of a win-win result. And sell it to them.
Of course, you may decide that this kind of effort asks more than it is worth. In which case, where to now, both for you and what you hold so dear? And what impact will it have, to leave the group behind like this? These are all good questions to ask. But a choice must be made. Stop sacrificing your time like this.
